big mistakes single women make about relationships

Single women tend to believe many misconceptions about relationships and make certain mistakes because the dating world is seen to be a form of a jungle. However, with what I am sharing, you will get to know what mistakes to avoid.

Being the second part of this series, I will continue from the fifth tip.

1. Looking shabby

Some of us have gone through that phase where we said, “I don’t have to dress to impress anybody. I am good to go as long as I am comfortable.” In the end, we forget that appearance matters, not because we want to impress anyone but because we should look the part we want to project. It is not about wearing seductive or expensive clothes. Be comfortable but look put together.

2 Making your ex look bad

Some single women cannot have a conversation without mentioning how they had terrible exes. If you keep making reference to your ex then it means you are not emotionally ready for a new one. It does not make you look good.

3. Being extreme with choices

Balance is important. Don’t be too picky or go for any guy that makes himself available. The point is that if you have an idea of the man you want, then that is fine but don’t let that mental image make you chase impossibilities. Hold on to only traits that make him a good man. Everything else should be considered a bonus.

4. Pretending not to want a man

If you have been hurt before or are scared about getting hurt, don’t close yourself from love by acting as though you don’t want it. I know it is hard but relationships give you a partner, friend, and companion so don’t shut yourself out. Admit your desire for a man to yourself and if someone comes knocking, give him a chance. 

I hope love will find you soon.